Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts

Tuesday, 21 April 2020

Life's Changes - A Commentary 113 Days In...


Lots of my friends have been posting a post similar to this on their facebook pages, so that it will reappear as a memory in years to come. To remind us just what our days, routines and life became with this COVID-19 pandemic.

I thought I would do it here instead.

Life is definitely slower, I have a list of things I am going to go while I can’t go out and about so much and while I am making progress there is still a certain amount of procrastination happening. I, like most of us, am acquiring new IT skills as we all jump on Zoom, House Party, Messenger, WhatsApp, FaceTime, GoToMeeting (and Skype if we must) to connect and reconnect with our families, friends, workplaces, classmates and teachers.

Life is very different – more planned. No more spontaneous trips to the supermarket or the mall. Even here in Australia where things are slightly more relaxed than in New Zealand. Thankfully everybody seems to have come to their senses and stopped panic buying at the supermarkets and pharmacies. There are still some items in short supply but we all seem to be doing okay. The days of arguments and brawling over essential grocery items – pretty appalling and embarrassing displays of behaviour – seem to have passed. Neighbours helping neighbours and communities helping communities where necessary. No more weekend drives, or day trips to see friends on the other side of town, interstate or to go to the beach.

The confusing thing about Australia is that although there are national rules in place for social gatherings and travel there are differences state by state. We are in our bubble, inside our state bubble, inside the whole country bubble. In some states that’s it. Just you and your bubble people. In others you CAN have visitors but only two. How on earth do you police that ? It should be none, I feel. It also feels a bit like a competition; state against state – who can do it better ? They all have different legislation as well. Every press conference is broadcast live; interrupting normal programming, then played ad nauseam over and over with the media sensationalising many aspects and twisting the facts (although they say they are not). It just makes it more confusing – was that rule for NSW or QLD or was it for everyone ?

When you go to the shops (and here there are more than just supermarkets open) you have to be sure that you are socially distancing yourself from others. Four square meters per person, if a retailer can not ensure this then they must close. There is masking tape on floors, chalk marks on pavements so that we don’t stand too close to each other as we wait to get into the supermarket or to collect our takeaway food or coffee.

In Australia, cafes and restaurants are allowed to remain open only if they can offer their meals and drinks as takeaway only. In New Zealand there is none of that. In New Zealand Burger King has gone into receivership. The postal service is still pretty much fully functional in Australia – it is not in New Zealand (hardly surprising given New Zealand Post’s business model). Post has never been stopped by war or weather or pandemic before. It is all well and good to make use of the new technology available to us to keep in contact with people – but we are not a completely online, tech savvy population. Grandparents and elderly relatives locked down in aged care complexes or in their own home don’t all have access to the new fangled gizmos – and some would have no idea where to start. BUT they all have a letter box and we are all allowed out for exercise and could deliver direct if we lived that close – or drop our letters, cards, kid’s art or photos into a mailbox to be distributed by the postal service. What a way to brighten someone’s day – what a new skill to master for our tech reliant kids and youth.

In New Zealand everyone who can work from home IS working from home; every school student is going to school at home. In New Zealand if you have a job in a non-essential industry and you can’t work from home – you still have to stay at home. If you are over 70 or you have underlying health issues a weakened immune system or in an at risk ethnic group you must stay at home; not even go to the supermarket. In Australia things are more lenient. Schools are open – but mostly they are there for the children of essential workers to attend – parents who cannot just stop working, and cannot work from home. Every other parent has the choice whether to send their kids to school or to keep them home and essentially home-school them with support from teachers, schools and education departments. Supermarkets have dedicated shopping hours for the elderly, those with disabilities and their carers as well as for essential workers.

Governments across the world have closed their borders. Only returning citizens and permanent residents are allowed to enter Australia and New Zealand. Domestic travel has also decreased; in Australia states have closed their borders to each other. It is mandatory to self isolate for 14 days after entering the country (and state). Initially this was advised to be at home, but changes and pressure throughout have meant that now quarantine/self isolation is taking place in hotels with buses transporting passengers from airports to hotels where they are locked in, provided food and security guards ensure nobody can leave freely.

Airlines have stopped flying by up to 90% and because of the social distancing rules many hospitality businesses have closed down – the unemployment market is flooded with hospitality and travel industry workers. Virgin Australia have entered voluntary administration and may not survive. But many other business around Australia go on, tradespeople, public transport, postal workers, hairdressers (but not beauticians and nail technicians), garden centres, banking, council workers…Pubs, clubs, music and sports events and venues were among the first to be ordered to stop operating since they were places where large numbers gathered regularly.

Panic buying set in during in the early days; stage 2, 3 and at the start of stage 4 in New Zealand and in Australia before restrictions began to be put in place. In fact it turned out this was the case all over the world. We had no toilet paper, no disinfecting supplies, no paper towels no laundry soap, no hand sanitizer, no flour or yeast. Today, day 91 since WHO began providing daily updates in developments, there are still shortages of many of these staple items.

·         There is tape on the floors at food supermarkets, post offices, on footpaths outside takeaways and cafes to help distance shoppers 2m (6ft) from each other. Stores can only have a limited number of people inside stores, therefore line ups outside the store doors. I haven’t seen this so much in Australia, but it is commonplace in New Zealand to queue for 40 minutes to an hour to get inside a supermarket to begin to shop.
·         Non-essential stores and businesses, trades closed.
·         In New Zealand supermarkets, pharmacies, dairies are the only shops allowed to open
·         Drs and Vets remain open but must phone ahead; many consultations via phone/skype etc
·         Children's playgrounds, bush trails, water activities, visits to the beach, swimming pools, gyms are off limits.
·         Entire sports seasons cancelled. Concerts, tours, festivals, entertainment events - cancelled.
·         Weddings, family celebrations, holiday gatherings - cancelled. In Australia only 5 people can attend a wedding; minister/celebrant, the couple and two witnesses.
·         Funerals limited to only those within the deceased's bubble. In Australia only 10 people including the staff from the funeral home and venue can attend a funeral.
·         There are no religious services, churches, mosques, temples are closed.
·         Schools/daycare/universities are all closed. No gatherings are permitted.
·         Those who are lucky enough to have a job that is able to be done from home without the need to have physical contact are able to continue to work.
·         Not allowed to physically able to socialise with anyone outside of your household bubble. In Australia this rule is different in every state; in Queensland you can have up to 2 visitors enter your bubble. In Australia, as well, couples who live apart are able to see each other.
·         Exercise is encouraged , people are allowed outside for walks/cycling but must stay within their neighbourhood and observe the 2m rule.
·         An idea to reproduce the children’s story “Going on a Bear Hunt” gathers momentum worldwide and teddy bears and other soft toys start appearing at windows and on porches for children to look out for when out for a walk. Similarly drawing and painting rainbows to be placed in windows, or drawn on pavements spreads around the globe.
·         Communities gather – in isolation_ on their balconies, front steps and porches and driveways to sing and play music together, to clap in a show of thanks for the healthcare workers, some share drinks (very innovative) and Easter eggs from a distance, others even play tennis between windows or from one roof to another.
·         Museums, Art Galleries, Gardens and some tourist attractions offer free virtual tours online. Ballet companies, theatre productions and musicians entertain us with free streaming performances and concerts from their living rooms #TogetherAtHome
·         We watch a lot of tv, movies, box set series. We read. We bake – breaking out skills we didn’t know we had and share recipes on social media – and post photos of the results. We use our time wisely, to learn new skills, complete tasks we never have time for and to reconnect with ourselves while connecting with our friends and families in new ways.
·         Worldwide there are concerns about severe shortages of masks, gowns, gloves for front-line workers.
·         Around the World there are shortages of respirators, hospitals, beds, nursing staff and Dr's.
·         Petrol prices have fallen dramatically. In New Zealand it is as low as $1.83 pre COVID-19 it was normally around $2.20 per litre. In Australia prices which normally varied between $1.25-$1.69 in a cyclic market pattern have dropped to as low as 85cents per litre. Prices not seen for many years – and the irony…nobody can go anywhere to take advantage of the phenomenon.
·         Many countries, New Zealand and Australia, included have put in place economic measures to support workers and businesses who find themselves out of work due to the restrictions or lockdown.
·         Manufacturers and other businesses have morphed and diversified; distilleries and vineyards are producing hand sanitiser, others are making PPE, cafes and restaurants have adapted to a takeaway world (in Australia), others have quickly established an online presence.
·         Some people are wearing PPE in public. In some countries this practice is mandatory.
·         Our Politicians and Chiefs of Health become regulars on our tv screens providing daily updates.
·         Roads are quieter, many towns and cities resemble ghost towns.
·         Pollution levels reduce dramatically – and quickly – air quality improves at the same time. All around the world. The waterways of Venice are clear, and filled with sea-life rather than tourists and boats, the night skies are starrier with less light pollution, the Himalayas are seen from Northern India for the first time in thirty years.

As of today Monday 20th April 2020 New Zealand has been in level 4 lockdown for 26 days. Authorities are confident that the curve has been flattened and announced that in one week on Monday 27th April at midnight they will return to level 3 and potentially to level 2 after a fortnight.

This is the Novel Coronavirus (Covid-19) Pandemic, which was declared March 11th, 2020.

It has changed us all, and it has changed what our future lives will be, day to day.

Life is precious.
We all have a new appreciation for what we have along with a hope that we will not take the things and the people we dearly love for granted.
Be thankful. Be grateful. Stay connected. Live slowly. Be mindful.
Be kind to each other - love one another - support everyone.

Let’s all hold on to what we have learnt about ourselves and each other
Let's not put this experience behind us
Let’s talk about it
Let’s fight to keep the connections we have built, restablished, cherished
Let’s remember
Let’s not go back to our old habits, our rushed disconnected lives,
Let’s build a future we can be proud of.

Sunday, 31 December 2017

So here is a bit of a catch up on 2017

This is a quick run down to record happenings that have been missed while I was trying to keep up with the #52Stories blog challenge.

I've moved - house, country; the lot.

I'm enrolled in my first formal study since leaving school - holy heck ! A Diploma in Family History is going to be mine, in a year - or maybe three.

I got 84.5% in my first unit - High Distinction 😊 and I am expecting results for the 2nd unit in the next couple of weeks.

I've been walking lots - no car here (yet) so I have been wearing out the soles of my shoes.

Shopping and meal planning has become more thoughtful and measured. No more racing to the supermarket mid recipe ! And heavy shopping bags to carry home are not much fun either.

I'm still looking for a job. Consequently, I am contemplating whether staying in Bendigo is viable...I'm thinking not...maybe somewhere a little larger is on the cards.

We've done a bit of exploring, and we had a great visit with Mum and Dad before the weather got too hot.

There has been a bit of culture - "The Book of Mormon" in Melbourne and lots of markets and festivals in Bendigo.

I had a fun day in Melbourne with friends for Wellington and a chance meeting with an NZ cousin on Dad's side of the tree, who just happened to come to the Goldfields ! Then a planned meeting with 4th cousins on Mum's side of the tree just before Christmas.

I'm especially grateful for the support of family and friends throughout the year...most especially to my wonderful daughter for all she does for me.




























Saturday, 2 September 2017

#52Stories, Week 29, What major crossroads have you faced in your life, where you had to choose among competing paths or opportunities ? Who or what helped you make the right decision ?

Which job offer to accept ?

To sell or not to sell ?

Stay or go ? Cut and run.

I guess these three questions sum up most of the crossroad type situations I have been in in my life.

One day 20 something years ago I was offered two jobs. Both in Johnsonville (so handy to home), both paying about the same. Which one to take ? I can’t even remember the details of the one I didn’t take; maybe something in the education sector in that business complex on Broderick Rd. The one I did accept, I ended up staying for close to 20 years ! Who could have predicted that. What a team – my Yellow family. Wouldn’t change it for the world – but then there came another crossroad. Too many changes over all that time and the last one, a change in reporting line was the catalyst. Cut and run. Live life my way. Make choices for ME.

Then another, that eternal restlessness. There must be gypsies somewhere in my past I think. To move or not to move. To sell or not to sell. To take a chance or settle. No regrets (well not many)

There have been plenty of stay or go, cut and run situations. Sometimes indecision or low confidence made me stay longer than I should. But when the decision to go gets made – things happen. FAST.

Advice ? Sometimes this seems scarce. Sometimes it isn’t offered. (Maybe people don’t read my signals well.) Sometimes it is misguided. Sometimes people play the devil’s advocate, sometimes they lay all the cards on the table. But usually the final decision is mine. Then the regrets, if any, are my own demons to deal with.

The experience makes me more resolute, determined not to follow the same path again. It challenges me to make things work, to learn from past mistakes.


YOLO – choose how you want to live it. Be brave, take chances.

Wednesday, 30 August 2017

#52Stories, Week 25, Describe your family legacy regarding education. Do you come from a long line of scholars ? Were you the first to earn a degree ? Are you forging a new legacy with your own children ?

Be the best that you can be.

I would say that was an underlying motto in the family. Dad had a degree in Engineering, Mum studied while we were at college to become a teacher – she had studied nursing when she left school.

There wasn’t any pressure to go and get a qualification or go to university. If that was what we chose - well and good, if not – no matter. In the 70’s you didn’t need a qualification or a degree for the majority of jobs. If you did many workplaces trained you as you worked – apprenticeships and the like. If you weren’t interested in a trade, or nursing, or teaching, or doctoring and dentistry – you just looked for a job doing something you could “just do”.

To work in the bank or insurance you just needed to show an aptitude and demonstrate a good work ethic, not like now when it seems you almost need at least a BA to look at the positions vacant. If you had studied shorthand or typing that would assist you into an office role in most cases, and accounting might have helped you into a junior role in an accounting firm.

I took languages at college – Latin and French. They didn’t really get me anywhere. I had thought when I was 13 and had to choose course options that maybe I might do Law – and that Latin might be handy. But plans change. To be truthful I have never known what I want to do when I grow up !

Teaching ? Nursing ? Almost I did Home Science to become a dietician – how much different would life be now ?

But no – no formal qualifications – and I have done okay. Sometimes I think what if ? But what if might have changed my whole path and there are definitely some things I wouldn’t want to change. So.

I’ve been a bit the same as a parent – it takes time to work out the path you want to take in life. The pressures are different and today’s youth a made to feel they need a degree to do the most menial jobs, and that if they aren’t academically amazing, then they are at the bottom of the pile. Who are we then - parents with no qualifications – to lecture our children that that must have this degree or that ? To encourage them to embrace lifelong debt in their early 20’s and beyond.


So far it has worked for me. For myself and as a parent - I think.

Saturday, 24 May 2014

I'm going on an Adventure

 

I began this year being lost in a sea of belongings and "keep-me's" and spent many days and nights and weekends working though my possessions and redistributing them. I've become a big poster on freecycle in a quest to make sure the belongings I was discarding were going to people who actually wanted them. It's all free and feels quite cathartic saying goodbye to things as they leave with their new owners. BBQ, storage bins, christmas decorations, old vhs videos, recycleable shopping bags, painting equipment, gardening items and masses of craft supplies.

And to what end ? Well it's all so that I can have an adventure. 

I listed my house for sale, and it sold. It would have been great to have been almost mortgage free - like I should have been, had I not made other financial decisions - but I'll be okay. It was with some trepidation though that I actually took that step. I actually quite enjoyed living in the pristine order of show home world. But, I was quite an emotional wreck when the moment came to actually agree to an offer of sale - I'd spent more than 20 years living in this house. My daughter was just at primary school, and now she is an educated determined young woman with her dreams within her reach. I love that house, but it was time for a change for us both.

As I was dealing with all the emotions of the property market, I learned that my role at work was to be disestablished. What a long drawn out process that has been. I decided that it was a sign, that maybe it was reaffirming the other changes I was making, but that didn't make it any easier to deal with. The last four weeks have been the worst, I felt quite disenfranchised by the process, but finally the decision was made.

Now it does feel like the universe is aligned. House sale is settled on the same day I finish work, and then next step can begin.

This weekend I have had my possessions all packed up and put in storage until I decide where I want them to go next. Not everything is packed though, there is still a bit of a mess to sort out and tidy up. What clothes do I need ? What sentimental pieces to remind me of home ? And of course there is cleaning ! We really should clean behind our stoves, fridges and washing machine much more frequently - gross, to say the least.

And so the adventure ? I'm going to move to the UK. Pretty scary, but exciting at the same time. I've always wanted to do it, but life sort of got in the way. I don't know if it will be for 6 months or 1 year or 5, but I want to give it a go. I'm going to miss lots, people, family, the harbour in the morning on a calm day with the sun lighting the hills so that each layer has it's own dimension, tuis and other birdlife in my garden waking me each morning  and talking to me throughout the day.

But, life is full of experiences and I'm going to go and make new memories and experience new things; live on the edge for a bit and hopefully make a new life in a new place. And if it doesn't work out, I can always just come home and bring all my new memories with me.

And the best thing about this adventure ? I get to do it with an amazing young woman who wants to experience the same things that I do. My daughter. How lucky am I ?

Now back to the sorting...